You can change anything in your life by changing how you feel. When you change how you feel about any subject, the subject will change. But in changing the way you feel, don't try to get rid of the bad feelings... instead put love in. Don't try to get rid of anger or sadness; anger and sadness are gone when you put love in. There is only one force in life and that force is love. You are either feeling good because you are full of love, or you are feeling bad because you are empty of love, but all your feelings are degrees of love.
-Rhonda Byrne, The Power